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You may call me Nicolas, Nico, or Nic. 22. Louisville, KY.A journey of self-exploration in identity, feminism, sex-positivity, recreational drug use, queer activism, and anything else I happen to dabble in.

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The five fucking douchiest things you can say to a trans* person when they come out to you

  • Wait, do you have a dick… or….?
  • Have you had the surgery?
  • But how do you have sex?
  • So what’s your real name?
  • But you’ll always be [birth name] to me.

Seriously, I don’t care who you are, you’re not any sort of ally if you ask these sorts of questions/make that statement. If a trans* person wants you to know, they’ll volunteer the information. Putting someone in that kind of uncomfortable situation is not acceptable. It is not supportive or helpful in any way. So stop fucking asking, douche bag. 

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    Quite accurate. I’ve had many of these said to me. Insta anger.
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    Eh, each to their own. Online, I’m fine with answering the first three questions and don’t mind if they’re asked....
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    Granted, I am not trans. But signal boosting this for two reasons. One, because it needs to be and I am behind it 100%...
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    If you want to be an ally, be an ally.
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    personally, I don’t really mind those statements. all of these things just depend on who you are as a person.
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